Have you ever been in a relationship where you seemed to be the one that always needed attention? Nothing was good enough or something was always lacking....you found yourself unsatisfied with the way things were going most of the time... simply because you were TOO NEEDY. I define a" needy" person as being one who is blinded by selfishness. He or she thinks they need attention or need more quality time, more surprises and gifts, more hugs and cuddles, more phone calls during the day when in actuality, these are only things they want and most of the time it's their way or the highway. Since selfishness is blinding them, it only lets them see the other person and all of their "faults" (things you think they should or could be doing better). This, ladies and gents, is how relationships fall apart; whether girlfriend and boyfriend, husband and wife or just bffs. Let us wake up this year and see ourselves as we really are and not just the other person. How about we step up a notch and do the things that we expect others to do for us? If you find yourself in the category of being a "needy" person, what are some things that you can do to help have and keep lasting relationships? Think about it.
I know we talked little bit at the end of class yesterday, so you may not have had time to play around with colors. See what happens if you change out that burgundy color. You want the posts to jump out at your reader. Don't expect readers to be able to follow your take on "neediness." Should you clarify that you are needy or that you have just come from a relationship with a needy person? Might help frame this a bit better.
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